Thank you for emphasizing the consensual nature of spanking play. It is the sort of thing that many people do not understand and fail to make the effort you did to learn more. My husband and I do not practice either the sort of dominance and submission in Shades of Grey (and from the little I read, it's not clear that the author knows much at all about actual dominance and submission play), nor do we practice domestic discipline. We spank for erotic pleasure in our 20-plus year, totally egalitarian, totally feminist marriage.
One final note, all you men out there need to remember that although feminists can and do engage in both giving and receiving spanking, giving anyone a smack on the butt without their permission is assault, no mater how long you've been partners.
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One final note, all you men out there need to remember that although feminists can and do engage in both giving and receiving spanking, giving anyone a smack on the butt without their permission is assault, no mater how long you've been partners.