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  • Posted by:
    Ariel Paulsnow on 02/17/2013 at 11:28 AM
    Re: “The Big Spank!
    I am impressed that you were able to take a topic that is taboo to a lot of people and was able to write it without prejudice. I am also glad that you did not portray those being spanked as being weak, insecure, brainwashed, a victim, or any of the other things that are frequently thought of those in DD relationships.

    With that said, I think that you could go deeper into the subject of DD. First you seem to have done a lot of your research with CDD (Christian Domestic Discipline). That is a valid group, and there is quite a bit the same as DD there is quite a bit different from DD.

    Also there are a lot of benefits a couple gets from a DD. Before, during and after a punishment the one getting spanked feels cared for and loved and free from the stressers that are part of everyday life.

    Plus there is another faucet of DD that was not even mentioned. There are a lot of people who have discipline relationships and are not in a romantic relationships with the person disciplining them (frequently referred to as disciplinarians). These relationships are only about accountability and discipline (no sex or erotic play at all). I personally am in one of those relationships for a few years and am happy and content with the arrangements and relationship I have with my disciplinarian.

    Here are a couple links that I think would help explain DD.

    http://learningdd.com/blog/

    http://learningdd.com/